The real truth

Many people try to convince you to believe in the same things they believe, some of them tried harder than others, because they are sure his true is the only true.

The beliefs cover almost everything: sports, religion, economy, conspiracy, life goals, best super hero... And is probably you will never agree.

You can speak with different people about those topics, everyone have his personal opinion and have something to say... (well at least, the people who thinks). The problem begin when one of you try to impose your posture, you can trow many arguments to defend your belief, but certainly you won't be able to change his mind (well, as long as the people you choose are smart). But how we could know if your truth is the unique truth and the more true.

In science we should be able to accept new hypothesis, therefore we are more open minded and we can debate, research and experiment, then is our goal to find the truth. There is a big difference with the fanatics, they don't need evidence to talk, they only need believe in their own things, that is why exist so many problems, they don't want to argue about the matter.

But, you should say something to other people or you should keep your thoughts for yourself? I think we have the freedom to express our opinion and the people have enough reasoning to decide if they believe us a little or nothing, even they can counter argument and give us new information about the topic we don't know.

The other problem is, some of that beliefs are bad things (well at least for the most of the people who believe en rights and the freedom... Because we can't establish what is a bad thing for now, is the same thing, most of our concepts about ethics are invents of more humans based on more human behaviors) and if this kind of people are fanatics, well that is a big trouble... Make some of them change his mind, it's a long and painful way that no one should take. You will need a lot of time and patience, you need bring more information, scientific facts and even other people who believe in the same way you do.

In the end there is not a real truth, nevertheless some people refuse to believe that... I don't fight with them because is a waste of time, furthermore i don't have proves of the truth, i only think in life and stuff.

Sometimes you just need accept it

There are many things we want to do in our life, but some of us don't meet limits and when we trace our goals, we aim to high and don't measure the impact... On the other hand there are many factor influencing the nature of the world, and thus we really don't have control of the situation. We only have our decisions, and sometimes, they are not enough.

The promise to make personal projects, to have a healthy life, to have better habits and leave the vices. The good day when you will be a better person... That time when you will change, never comes. And all that good choices you do o and fail because other people decisions and the random number generator (in real life).

We become frustrated by what happens and the lack of control, but there are one thing we can do in those cases: Accept it. You know what you can control, and what you can do. You know your limits, and you also know when is time to leave and let go. You need to clean your life, you can't have a long to do list, it's simply insane.

There are people out there, whom really don't care what you do or who you are, nevertheless, you don't need care about it, you can try the times you considerate enough and, if they don't be agreed, you just let it go and change the plan.

Stop with the frustration, because is never healthy, and you probably don't get anything good. You should fight, but you need to know when give up and change the strategy.

"You can do anything, but you can't do everything".