Quantum personality

I always think I am the same person all the time.No matter the passed time, the changes in my personality are not radical.

So, who are we really? I am different person with every person? Maybe.


In phylosophy exist two positions: Everthing change (Heraclito) and Nothing change (Parmenides), well at least that is the short version... In our life, probably we can guess we don't change because we are the same tool to measure this change, everything is relative, and we are the reference. But I can see the change, even in the writting of this blog, what a shame!

We are the consecuence of all events in our life. We are subject to the random situations of life as much as of ours as that the others around us. That means we should be always changing, but it's more complicated than that. We maintain our postures and opinions about some particular topics, we can debate and we can informate about new subjects, we can change our opinion... We react in the same way to some events, but we can experiment new emotions and change the perspective of the life. But we are always the same person, in theory...

Some persons say that we maintain our character, the capability of control ourselves, the time reaction, our intelligence and our likes. We are the combination of a lot of neural conections in our brain, only a injure can change drastically. But the conections change every day,  some memories are erased, some new knowledge take the place. Every day there is new content available on Internet. We learn new things and we can like new things. Depending of your confortable zone and the times you go out of there, you probably change more.

But let's back our premise, we change with the people whom we coexist. It have a certain logic, because every person is different, a different serie of events, and that is the interesting part of meet new persons. We can exchange our opinions, we can listen a diferent point of view, we can know very different experiences of ours and their reactions. It's a pleasure meet someone who can understand a part of us, but that is the point is only a part of all, and I think that is what motives us to be different with every person.

We change depending of our listener, with this particular person we create a local posture, a local sense of humor, we create experiences and stories in common. Sometimes the differents are more remarkable, because the behavior has a more deep level of trustness. But if we have same level of trustness, it's probably a compatible behavior with more persons. You can separe for a long time for these person, but it's probably this local elements continue, or even better, have new but compatible content.

If you meet more people, you probably can meet more about yourself.